The Art of Loving

A Monthly Men’s Group

This is a space for men who want to create thriving relationships, build relationship dynamics that heal, embody their truth, and love their women deeply (even if that feels impossible right now). 

What we learn applies to any man who loves any woman. Maybe you’re in the dating world. Maybe you’ve been married for 20 years. Maybe you are recently divorced. Perhaps you are raising a daughter. The practices and principles in this group will serve all those realms and many more. While this group is (mostly) about relationships, everything we learn can enhance and clarify all areas of your life.

Who

The men in this community are complex, whole, strong, brave, and vulnerable. They want to love themselves and their current/future partner well.

They have rich stories that include deep pain as well as strength, love, and triumph.

Why

We are creating real, lasting change that feels good to our entire system — to us, our current/future partner, our families, our households, our communities.

From this place, we are able to enjoy life, serve, and give back our natural gifts from a place of fullness and wholeness.

What

We boldly claim our truth. We commit to becoming more and more ourselves. We become an invitation to our woman to meet us, to love us, to support us, to create with us. Ultimately, we learn to love ourselves, to love life, and to live with an open heart.

This Group is for You if You are Experiencing Any of These:

✺ You are stuck in a rut or stagnancy in dating/relationship

✺ Women sometimes baffle, overwhelm, or intimidate you 

✺ Your woman isn’t wanting sex, or the type of sex you desire

✺ Your woman always wants more, & you wonder if you’ll ever be enough

✺ You feel overwhelmed by your woman’s vast array of emotions 

✺ You long to be a good husband/boyfriend/date

✺ You go from relationship to relationship, but always end up unfulfilled

✺ Your life has a sense of heaviness, or dullness, and you want to feel alive and like yourself again

✺ You struggle with your sense of masculinity because of many unhealthy cultural paradigms and expectations 

✺ You and/or your woman’s triggers are resulting in division/conflict instead of closeness/repair

The Art of Loving

$48/Month

A Monthly Men’s Group
3rd Wednesday of Each Month, 7-8:30pm EST
Held on Zoom
Recordings available

Sept. 2024 – Feb. 2025
Enrollment Closed

Email or book a call for questions!

As is loving a woman, beautiful and complex as they are. It’s a living process, with no end to the learning, the adjusting…and we embrace that. And we start at the beginning which is always the art loving you.

Here are principles we orient to in order to create expansive, conscious relationships and fulfilling lives. They are our North Star and our undercurrent. You don’t have to agree with all of these, or be “good” at these in order to join. These are a direction, not a grading system or a dogma. 

If one or more of these speak to you, I’d love to see you in these fruitful calls!

Loving is a life-long practice.

Principles of Practice:

  • Men are good, we are good

  • We honor our inner power and harness it for our own growth

  • We allow, accept, and attend to all emotions, desires, sensations, etc. 

  • We go inward in order to understand ourselves deeply and bring that truth to our relationship

  • We lead from connection to our heart, our own feminine, and our feminine partner 

  • We meet ourselves exactly where we are at

  • We assume everything arising within us and within our relationship is a gift for our growth

  • We accept life’s request for full participation 

  • We trust ourselves and life’s unfolding around us and through us

Email or book a call for questions!

We start each meeting with a rich lesson and embodiment exercise. They are simple, but powerful lessons that you can take with you into your life, integrating new skills, and ultimately enhancing your life and relationships.

The rest of the call will be for your questions. I’ll coach you through your question, and you and everyone else will benefit from what comes up. If you’ve never been in a group coaching environment before, no problem! You’ll get the hang of it quickly. 

While I won’t be calling on anyone or requiring you to speak, these meetings are best served when you come willing to be courageous, honest, and participatory.

What to Expect

Email or book a call for questions!

About Courtney, Your Coach

 I am a relationship and embodiment coach. After 10 years in an abusive relationship, I’ve dedicated much of my life to understanding relationship dynamics in order to be able to build safe, beautiful, and fulfilling relationships. Our relationships have the power to support us, enliven us, and help us grow. Or they have the power to weigh us down and keep us stagnant. 

I’ve always worked closely with men professionally, and have many close male friendships. I love men. I understand men well, and seek to understand them further. I want to help bridge the chasm between men and women, so we can all thrive together. 

The space we create in these calls is open, loving, spacious, and safe. There’s no judgment. You’ll come away clearer, stronger, and more grounded. I look forward to welcoming you into the group!

Testimonials

  • "After every conversation with Courtney, I gain new perspective that makes me a better leader, coworker, friend, husband, and father. She's just that good."

    SG

  • "Courtney sees my blindspots in a way only a seasoned pro can. And she calls them out in a way where I can actually hear them. My relationship with my wife has changed so much for the better since joining. Both me and my wife are Courtney's biggest fans."

    LJ

  • "I have become a better man and better lover through this work. I feel an inner strength and belief in myself that wasn't there before."

    MC